Reasons Why He Won't Propose

Every relationship that's not clearly
defined is an absolute waste of years
and commitment. So many adults claim
to be "in a relationship" without a
logical purpose. It's always a
disheartening experience, if after so
many years of making a relationship
work, you then discover that the
relationship has a future but without
you in the picture. Being in a supposed
serious relationship with your partner
must involve visible signs of
commitment and long-living. At that
point, you can't afford to be
disappointed; you should know what
you represent in the relationship. If
you've been together for years and it
seems there's no plan of having you-
two, living together-forever, here are
obvious signs to observe and critically
consider.
No. 1 - If you are the opposite of
him.
When it comes to marriage, a man want
a woman that will complement him; a
woman that knows or would like to
know abit about his career or job
details. Lets take for an instance, If
he's a Public speaker, he won't get
along with a lady that's shy or can't
make an appearance before the crowd.
Even when we know: we all aren't the
same, a man would desire a lady that's
presentable not just to his parents and
families but also at the official front,
hence, he won't propose.
No. 2 - If you talk faster than your
brain.
Such a lady on a round table with
friends, among families or relatives is a
bad deal. He sure won't propose.
No. 3 - When you play the boss.
Sometime ago, i heard a lady telling her
man: "baby, don't worry, i will rent the
apartment for us" Oh no, you just killed
his ego! How about: "baby, i will lend
you the money to rent the apartment
but you will pay back" and if he
doesn't, at least you never wanted a
pay-back at first. Let him be in-charge
of taking sensitive decisions.
No. 4 - When you mistake being
classy as being expensive.
No man will desire a woman that pays
maximum attention to what she wears
even when he wants her to look good.
Getting the latest of this and that
doesn't mean you've got money or
you're so comfortable, it only means
nothing else receives your attention
other than how expensive you look.
Such won't make a good wife with a
man with prospects. He just won't
propose.
No. 5 - If you are not from his home-
town.
Weird but true and such does exist.
Some men will not marry any lady not
in their state or from their home-town.
The earlier you know, the better for
you.
No. 6 - If there's an 'already-made'
lady somewhere.
He won't propose.
No. 7 - If his mother doesn't like
you.
It's no comics that some men are
totally controlled by their mother and
we have those whose decisions could
be highly influenced by their mother.
Young lady, instead of wasting your
time while waiting forever, just watch
the mother's body language, you could
have a clue if she want you around her
son.
No. 8 - Religion differences and
family acceptance.
This sometimes could be complex.
Where the wedding will hold, what
prayers will be said etc. Alot comes
with religion differences. If he comes
from a family where their beliefs are
considered uttermost. It would be
difficult for you to be accepted, hence,
he won't propose unless he chooses to
stand against his family or win their
mind over.
No. 9 - If he's still living with a
friend or still in his parent's house.
I think what he needs the most and
what's best for you both, is his
freedom. That's when you two can plan
for a good future together.
No. 10 - If the only time you have a
need is when you call him.
Read again, that could be the definition
of a pest. LOL. He won't propose.
No. 11 - When all you do is talk
about yourself and your family.
The young man would have doubts
about the future; if you're going to
allow him take care of his family as
much as you care about yours.
No. 12 - When he sees your level of
education as a problem.
Not a good one though but i'm sorry,
he won't propose.
No. 13 - When you are so much into
your job or career.
No. 14 - When your ex-s becomes
your handbag.
You said he's your ex and you still meet
for dinner dates and whatnot, no
matter how much he trusted you, don't
make him doubt you. Hence, you let
go! It isn't an issue of insecurity but an
issue of doing what's right. There is no
reason for you seeing your ex. If it's
somewhat official, demand a
replacement, find someone else to
have on those dates and discussions;
just not your ex. You both could be
friends but not regular meetings or
phone calls. Save your relationship
some drama and watch him propose to
you in no time
No. 15 - When you are richer than
him.
Not every guy out there can live with
this. It could be intimidating to have a
woman in charge of the mega bucks.
Some ladies can't be trusted at that
point and there's a tendency of that
man losing his prestige. Even with
those cash in your account, you'd
better be humble, hence, he won't
propose, expect if he has got the cash
as his main target.
No. 16 - When your mother
influences your decisions.
That's a straight red flag and if care is
not taken, your mum could tell you
how many times in a week you're
gonna Be Intimate with your man when
you're married. There's every need to
build a mind of your own, you can seek
advise from your mother but not you
allowing her to make the decisions in
your home. It could be dangerous!
No. 17 - When he seem to be chasing
you for too long.
He won't propose.
No. 18 - When you are dirty.
Yes, that's the right word: dirty. He
won't propose.
No. 19 - When you have so much of
male friends and you talk too much
of them around him.
It's just like a wife murmuring the
name of a male celebrity in her sleep,
right beside her husband. LOL. He
won't propose.
No. 20 - When you are already living
with him.
Maybe in the next few years but he
won't propose as fast as you want it
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No. 21 - If you didn't get pregnant to
confirm your fertility.
Crazy? But that's the truth, some men
are scared of 'left-overs', he might want
to be sure if you're still fertile for a
child before he proposes.