Signs That you are Dating the wrong Girl

Are you irritable? Tired all the time? Or just
plainly
unhappy? Before you see a doctor it could
be time
to self-diagnose a toxic friendship. Here are
tips to
help you cut that relationship off
1. You re Dimming Your Light:
She says she`s happy for you, but you can
tell she's not. So instead of shouting your
good news, you play it off as no big deal
so she won't get upset. Instead of putting
up with rain on your parade, it might be
time to shine in a sky with less cloud.
2. You're bottling It up:
You would open up, but she's got a track
record of spilling the beans, betraying your
trust and throwing you under the bus.
Keeping it in isn't healthy. It might be time
to find a friend you can share with without
fear.
3. You're Shutting Up:
You've logged hundreds of hours listening
to her guy gripes. But when it's your turn to
gripe, suddenly she's got a call on the
other line. If you've got 99 problems but
can't talk through one, it could be time to
find a better listener before your load gets
to be too much.
4. You feel alone:
Because she never takes your
side. Your supervisor is being difficult
again but all
she can see is her side of the argument.
Chances
are she cant see your side because shes
not on it.
5. You re flat broke:
You cant remember the last
time she remembered her wallet or could
make
rent. Now you re struggling and shes still
got her
hand out. Better set some boundaries or
you ll both
be in the poor house.
6. You spend energy being suspicious:
There's
just something about the way she laughs
at his
jokes. And it wouldn't be the first house
she's
wrecked. If you think she's capable of
something
as shady as pushing up on your man it
might be
time to let her go.
7. Your lie detector is in overdrive:
Every time
her mouth is open now that you think
about it.
Pathological liars can't be trusted. It's only
a
matter
of time before her untruths hurt you.
8. Your last nerve is wearing out:
Life is long
and sometimes people grow apart. If the
relationship no longer works, sometimes
it's better
to let go before things get to bad to repair.
9. You feel sometimed:
When you're the only
one there, you have her full attention. But
when
she has a man, new friend or fresh co-
worker,
you're on the back burner. You deserve a
friend all
the time: not just when it's convenient.
10. You suddenly feel substandard:
She
corrects your grammar, your choice in
clothes and even the men you date. If she
thinks she's so much better than you
maybe you should set her free to find
someone that's 'more on her level'
whatever that means.
11. You're Overexerted:
You always call her to hang out. And even
then her cancel rate is more than half. If
she can't make time for you, maybe you
should stop making time for her.
12. You've been hanging alone:
Because you
two are never down for the same thing.
There's a reason why birds of a feather
flock together. Party animals and
homebodies just don't mix. Instead of
choosing which of you has a bad time,
maybe you should choose to spend less
time together.
13. You're Tired of Playing Detective:
You:
What's Wrong Her: Nothing, *eye roll* All
relationships are about communication.
Making you play the guessing game while
she shuts you out is exhausting, unfair and
just plain uncool. If you can't work on your
issues, you can't work on your friendship.
14. You're having trouble being happy:
Debbie Downer was a funny Saturday Night
Live sketch, but who can afford to be her
best friend? If her permanent bad mood is
stealing your sunshine it may be time to
move on if you can't help her
cheer up.